First comes love… then comes falling in love with someone else? That may not be how the story goes, but sometimes, you end up caring about two guys at the exact same time.
While this may seem super awkward – and it definitely falls into that category – all hope is not lost.
You can still work out your feelings and take action. This doesn’t have to mean that your life is totally and completely ruined, even though it might feel that way.
If you’re in a relationship but in love with someone else, don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. Read on to find out how to deal.
1) Picture the break-up
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The first thing that you have to do when you’re in a relationship but in love with someone else is picture yourself breaking up with your current boyfriend.
Close your eyes if that helps the exercise. How would you feel? Would you be devastated? Miserable? Relieved?
If you feel relief at the thought of ending things, then you definitely aren’t in the right relationship for you and you have to dump this guy for real.
It’s basically like the guy that you have a crush on outside of your actual relationship is a catalyst for realizing what is wrong with your situation. You may not see that right now but that’s exactly what is going on.
On the other hand, if you start crying at the very thought of losing this guy that has been a huge part of your life for so long, then realize that the crush might be a momentary blimp on the horizon of your epic love story.
Sometimes a crush is just that: a crush. You’re human, after all. You’re not immune to thinking a guy is hot and attractive just because you’re already taken.
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